Why Singing Badly With My Teens Is Good for All of Us

I may or may not have burst into my kids’ rooms this morning singing to “Keep the Beat” by Lin-Manuel Miranda. I say “may not have” because I am fairly certain my boys would say that I wasn’t singing because singing sounds good and apparently, I sounded beyond awful.

All seriousness – singing is so good for the soul and your nerves, no matter how bad you sound 🙂 So is laughter – my boys (even though they wouldn’t admit it but the twinkle in their eyes said otherwise) and I laughed together at my horrid singing and did I mention, dancing?!

My goofiness got us all off on the right foot this morning and created an environment that made yelling at morning annoyances way harder.

As for my teenagers – I gotta say. It’s hard to relate to them a lot but being goofy and making a fool of myself is turning out to be a great way to connect (Take note though: make sure to do so when they aren’t in a scale 10 bad mood. 1-9 and goofiness is generally accepted!)

“All I can do when the road bends is lean into the curve…All I can do when the tanks run dry is see what’s in the reserve…”

xoxo, Sheila

🧡 The Orange Rhino

Teenagers, Early Mornings and the Parenting Moments That Make Me Laugh

Happy Saturday! Is there anything better than waking up at 6am to wake up 2 teenagers to catch a bus to a cross country race?! After the first week of school? I sure don’t think so. I mean for real.

My boys were as sweet as one year olds when you first walk into their room in the morning and they stand up in their crib and start jumping in excitement to see you.

And then their face brightens as their smile spreads from ear to ear and you can just feel the love. Yes. That is EXACTLY how my teenagers greeted me this fine morning. Lol. I still told them I loved them though 😉 and YES that also seemed to agitate them. Hahaha. Love my teenagers. 

Have a great Saturday everyone – remember, you are loved by your kiddos even if you don’t feel it, even if they don’t show it and ESPECIALLY even if you feel like you aren’t nailing this parenting thing.

Showing up and saying I love you and trying your hardest counts more than you give it credit. 

xoxo, Sheila

🧡 The Orange Rhino